Welcome home. There’s nothing quite like the feeling of opening your front door, dumping your bag and kicking off your shoes after a day out. You have the whole evening to spend as you please because you — on purpose — have said no to busyness.
Tip: Turn off your Wi-Fi, put your phone on flight mode and plant yourself on the couch. You can do some coloring, flick through a cookbook or lose yourself in a page turner.
Sensory upload. Most people spend the majority of their time indoors. But the benefits of taking in the sights and sounds of nature — even if just down at the local park — have been proved time and again by scientists. “The more high-tech our lives become, the more nature we need to achieve natural balance,” writes Richard Louv in his book The Nature Principle. In addition to lowering blood pressure, heart rates and cortisol levels, time spent in nature is known to reduce stress, improve immune function and facilitate good sleep.
“The outdoor world can expand our senses and reignite a sense of awe and wonder not felt since we were children,” Louv writes. “Nature can help us feel fully alive.”
Human-perception researchers are also concluding that we have more senses than just taste, touch, smell, sight and hearing. We could have as many as 30 senses, and what better way to ignite them than through nature?
Streamlined living. Rushing is the new normal, but in 2017, I’m going to say no to that. Instead, I’m looking to slow the pace and increase my enjoyment.
Tip: Reduce your wardrobe to go-together pieces you love, and put systems in place at home and at work to streamline your day. Doing so will cut down on the number of decisions you have to make and free up a surprising amount of time.
Nourish and nurture. If you think of your day as being broken up into thirds, what you’d like to prioritize becomes crystal clear. About eight hours is dedicated to sleep, eight more to work, and the rest is yours to do with what you will. It makes sense to spend as little of that time as possible on chores you don’t enjoy, and as much time as possible on taking care of yourself.
Tip: If you can reframe how you think about chores and turn them into tasks you enjoy, so much the better. Cooking nourishing meals, for example, can become a time to unwind, have a chat (even if it’s a video chat) and get creative. Not convinced? Add wine and your favorite music.
Practice gratitude. We’re programmed to want to earn more each year, progress up the career ladder and acquire the things we covet. But what if, even just for this year, you take a breather and say, “I have enough; I am enough”?
Getting to this point requires taking stock of everything you have that’s great — it could be your health, having a job that enables you to make your mortgage payments or rent each month, or simply having enough to eat. If you can count any of these things as blessings in your life, you’re doing better than most people on the planet. Appreciate it. Take a pause. You are enough.
Slowly does it. It can take practice to build breathing space into your life. The idea is to make downtime as appealing as possible. Don’t just take a bath, for example — soak in an aromatic bubble bath with a candle or two and some ultrasoothing music by your side, or with an ice-cold beer, if that tickles your fancy. Whatever works.
Tip: If you don’t have a bathtub, or if it’s not your thing, think about what else you could do that makes you slow down. Meditation, long walks, writing, reading, drawing, cooking — try a few activities and see what sticks.
Stop … in the name of love. Saying what we feel, showing that we care, spending quality time — these are things we often wish we’d done more of when crisis strikes and we lose someone we love.
The beginning of a new year is the right time to ensure that you have no regrets later. Write a letter, hug a little harder, laugh a little more, give someone your full attention. You know what to do.
Go gently forth. Living a more relaxed life doesn’t mean you have to give up on your dreams. Determining what you want has a habit of putting the wheels in motion and setting you on a path to eventually achieve your goal without undue pressure. Tape up a photo or two by your desk of your dream vacation, home or symbol of what you truly want, then have a little faith. Taking small steps toward your goals each day may suddenly feel easier.
Tell us: What would you love to experience more of in 2017? Share your thoughts in the Comments.